Ok, So after reading through all of the previous post I still cant get SD+ to run on my instance of MySQL 5 on our db server.
Based on the previous posts I have changed the mysql-ds.xml file to point to my DB server with the appropriate user name and password, I have tried with root privileges also with the same issue. When i launch SD+ It gets about half way through then crashes, there are no error reported in any of the logs the application just seems to shut down. I'm running SD+ 5.5.0.7