Cannot get SSL to work in ADSelfService, after checking box for Enable SSL Port I Cannot get back into the console

Cannot get SSL to work in ADSelfService, after checking box for Enable SSL Port I Cannot get back into the console

I am trying to use our company's wildcard certificate on ADSelfService and I have followed instructions to the letter, but it never works.  Every time I check the Enable SSL Port box in "Admin" console, edit the server.xml in /conf directory, I cannot get back into the console at all.  I end up have to revert back to a previous snapshot to get back in.

This is getting ridiculous.

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